Why Do We Make Decisions That Don't Pan Out?
Why Do We Make Decisions That Don't Pan Out?Many of us have trouble making decisions
But there's no reason for doing any of these things to ourselves
Especially not if we entertain the idea that we have a CHOICE
It’s surprising how many people don’t even consider that they might have CHOICE
Decision making is about CHOICE
Not thinking, feeling or doing (although these may be part of the process)
But about CHOICE
THEN it’s about Motivation to make the CHOICE
Explore the options available
Decide on positive & negative outcomes
then
CHOOSE what’s best for you either in the short term or the long termwhichever is the most workable
The options available may not be all that easy or palatable
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Why Do We Make Decisions That Don't Pan Out?Many of us have trouble making decisions
But there's no reason for doing any of these things to ourselves
Especially not if we entertain the idea that we have a CHOICE
It’s surprising how many people don’t even consider that they might have CHOICE
Decision making is about CHOICE
Not thinking, feeling or doing (although these may be part of the process)
But about CHOICE
THEN it’s about Motivation to make the CHOICE
Explore the options available
Decide on positive & negative outcomes
then
CHOOSE what’s best for you either in the short term or the long termwhichever is the most workable
The options available may not be all that easy or palatable
We may have to use steps to reach the actual CHOICE we really want
But if we are motivated, determined and work on each part
i n time we can construct the whole
At the very least we can CHOOSE to ACCEPT the best or a not so great option
“I don’t want to do this. But it’s part of my job and I CHOOSE to ACCEPT it”
By making this decision we are calmer.
We can get on with the job, getting it done better and faster as we are not fighting ourselves
or continuing to be angry about the situation
the medicine will go down one way or another
What things in your life could you change by deciding to ACCEPT you have a CHOICE?
Louise Smith PSYCHOLOGIST F2F Tele Online Counselling (Assoc MAPS) (QCT), B. A. (Hons) (Psych) (Japanese & Music), Dip. T. Prim. & Spec. Ed. (Hearing Impaired)
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Sara Jacobovici
6 years ago #14
Your topic Louise Smith, is very close to my heart. I always mention Viktor Frankl in any discussion about choice. He said, "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." I see this within the context of choice and control. Now I'd like to take out a quote from your buzz as it focuses on another aspect of decision making and what influences our choices. You write, “I don’t want to do this. But it’s part of my job and I CHOOSE to ACCEPT it”. From my perspective, this has to do with our sense of responsibility. A good place from which to make a choice. Thanks for initiating an important discussion.Louise Smith
6 years ago #13
#12John Rylance
6 years ago #11
May your choices reflect your hopes not your fears. Nelson Mandela. It's choices that define your life. ( me)Louise Smith
6 years ago #10
What things in your life Peter Stefanov could you change by deciding to ACCEPT you have a CHOICE?Louise Smith
6 years ago #8
For a slightly scientific view read about making decisions by Ian Weinberg Thanks to Randall BurnsRandall Burns
6 years ago #7
Interesting and thought provoking post Louise Smith from a different perspective that may offer some more insights;Pascal Derrien
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